Over 150 Love and Relationship Affirmations

How to use relationship affirmations/love affirmations

You can never heal relationships by talking and thinking about how awful it is. Love affirmations help heal your relationship by turning your thoughts away from the problems and help create new thoughts that will produce a solution.

Relationship Affirmations/Love Affirmations

• I see you clearly with the eyes of pure, unconditional love. I love what I see.
• My marriage/relationship made in heaven is made manifest on earth.
• I am in a joyous, intimate relationship.
• Every day in every way our marriage is getting better, better and better.
• My partner and I are very much in love with each other.
• My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned physically.
• My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned sexually.
• My partner and I arefully compatible and perfectly aligned emotionally.
• My partner and I are fully compatible and perfectly aligned intellectually. 
  My partner and I are fully compatible and perfectly aligned spiritually.
• I draw love and romance into my life and I accept it now.
• My partner is loyal to me.
• I am magnetic and irresistible to my partner.
• I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.
• From time to time I ask my husband, "How can I love you more?"
• I choose to see my husband clearly with the eyes of love and compassion, I love what I see.
• Love happens! I release the desperate need for love. I release the need for my partner to approve of me. I allow love to find me easily and effortlessly.
• Love is all around me. I feel everywhere. Joy fills my entire world.
• I was born to learn to love myself more, and to share that love with people around me.
• My partner is the love of my life and we adore each other.
• I rejoice in the love I encounter everyday.
• I now deserve love, romance, and joy--and all the blessings that life has to offer me.
• Love is all there is!
• Only love is real.
• I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.
• I am safe in all my relationships. I am always treated well..
• Long-lasting, loving relationships brighten my life.
• I am very grateful for all the love in my life. I find it everywhere.
• I am surrounded by love. All is well.
• My heart is open to love. I speak loving words to my spouse.
• I have a wonderful partner, and we are both happy and at peace.
• I come from the loving space of my heart, and I know that love opens new possibilities.
• There is no problem so big or so small, that it cannot be solved with love.
• Deep at the center of my being is an infinite well of love.
• I am in a joyous intimate relationship with a person who truly loves me.
• My relationships are mirrors that show me myself. 
• I am now learning from all my relationships.
• I laugh with my husband more and more each day.
• My relationships are helping me to heal and love myself.
• I am strong, vulnerable, and loving in my relationships.
• I deserve love and sexual pleasure.
• All is well in my marriage. Really.
• I am now ready to accept a happy, fulfilling relationship.
• I am now ready for my relationships to work.
• I love myself and I naturally attract loving relationships into my life.
• I am now attracting exactly the kind of relationship I want.
• I am now divinely irresistible to my perfect mate.
• All difficulties between me and ________ are now being healed.
• The more I love myself, the more I love ___________.
• I love ____________ and____________ loves me.
• All of the changes in my marriage and life are positive. I am safe.
• I am open to receiving love and to extending it.
• I interact with my husband positively and joyfully more and more each day.
• I/We remain focused on the big picture in our marriage.
• Giving my husband unconditional love makes me feel energized.
• I enjoy performing small acts of kindness for my husband. I love to see joy on his face.
• I always keep a sense of humor about things in my marriage.
• I am always centered and in present moment in my life and marriage.
• I accept, respect, and enjoy our differences. Differences add interest and variety to my marriage.
• I look for ways to contribute to my partner's growth and happiness. I support my partner in their goals unselfishly, knowing that it will make them happy.
• I respect what my partner has to say. I listen to my partner with genuine interest. I offer empathy when appropriate.
• I desire love, so I give my partner love.
  I desire respect, so I give my partner respect.
  I desire cooperation, so I give my partner cooperation.
  I desire compassion, so I give my partner compassion.
  I desire control, so I give my partner control!

For women:

• I am feminine and full of grace.
• I am feminine and receptive.
• I possess great inner-strength.
• I am fully receptive and appreciative for all the love that my partner showers upon me.
• I release excessive control. I live and let live in my marriage.
• I am receptive to my husband's romantic advances.
• I greatly admire and respect my husband for all that he is.
• I admire and respect my partner because ...
• I verbalize my respect and admiration for my partner daily.
• My yin/feminine energy blends perfectly and beautifully with my partner's yang/masculine energy.

Relationship Affirmations - Spiritual Relationship Affirmations 

We interact not only on a verbal level in relationships, but also on an energetic level. We are picking up each others' thought and feeling vibrations all the time. Hence, it is important to affirm that the energy exchanged is predominantly based on love and compassion.

• My husband and I are aligned with Spirit, more and more each day.
• Spirit is the source of love for me and my husband.
• Spirit is the source of abundance for me and my husband.
• Spirit heals our marriage thoroughly on all levels.
• Spirit dissolves all that is unlike love from our marriage.
• Through this marriage, we are growing closer to Spirit each day.
• Spirit blesses me and ________ with health, harmony and prosperity.
• Spirit fills me and ________with Divine Love and compassion.
• We are filled with the light and love of Spirit at all times.
• We surrender all differences between us to Spirit.
• My partner and I fulfill Divine potential in our marriage for Thy Glory.
• Spirit heals all differences between me and my partner.84
• I interact with my partner from the level/heart of my Higher Self more and more each day.
• I see and focus on our similarities more and more each day.
• How easy it is to create a marriage made in heaven!
• I trust that my marriage is in the safe, protective, loving arms of Spirit.
• I love my partner as Spirit loves me.
• We can do all things through Spirit who strengthens us.
• I trust the voice of Spirit inside me as the guide for all actions and decisions.
• I AM the divine love presence here and now in this marriage.
• Spirit guides by letting me know when to talk and when to stop and listen. With Spirit's help, I  empathize with my partner's position easily. With Spirit's help, I see things from my partner's point of view easily.

• Our home is filled with beautiful loving energy. (visualize)
• Our bedroom is filled with beautiful loving energy. (visualize)
• Our bed is charged with the energy of love and romance. (visualize)
• My aura harmonizes perfectly with that of my partner's and is filled with pure love when we are together.
• My energy harmonizes perfectly with that of my partner's and is filled with pure love when we are together.
• Our chakras are aligned in perfect harmony with Source and between ourselves.
• Love and peace surrounds my husband and I at all times.
• We are surrounded with romantic, loving energy when we are together.
• Our minds function in perfect harmony.
• My husband and I are cosmically compatible souls.
• My husband and I exude an inviting sense of heart, compassion and support towards each other. We intuitively feel safe, relaxed, wanting to get closer. We emanate a peaceful glow. We feel good around each other. We feel energized and optimistic when we are together.

Self Confidence/Self Esteem/Self Love Affirmations

It is important to love yourself in a marriage, for when you love yourself it is easier to love someone else. Not only that, you also become very attractive and lovable to your partner.
It is hard to generate positive thoughts about your marriage if you can't generate positive thoughts about yourself. You can use self love affirmations to help you in this regard.

• I am a radiant being, full of vitality, enjoying life to the fullest.
• I am beautiful, and everybody loves me. I am greeted by love wherever I go.
• I am becoming more and more self-assured, calm and confident.
• I love life and life loves me.
• I am a beautiful being of light.
• I look upon God, and the Divine within to be the source my happiness. 
• I love myself unconditionally for all my perfections and imperfections.
• My inner light shines brilliantly from within me.
• I am beautiful both on the inside and outside.
• The infinite love of Source is filling me.
• I am acting from my Higher Self.
• I look in the mirror joyously and say "I love you. I really love you."
• I release all past perceived wrongdoings of my husband. I release them with love.
• I honor who I am.
• I see the world through eyes of love and acceptance. All is well in my world.
• I willingly release any need for struggle or suffering. I deserve all that is good.
• I choose to be at peace with myself.
• I am choose to feel good about myself. I am worthy of my own love.
• It does not matter what other people say or do. What matters most is how I choose to  react and what I choose to believe about myself.
• I am wonderful, and I feel great. I am grateful.
• The greatest gift I can give myself is unconditional love.
• I love myself exactly as I am. I no longer wait to be perfect in order to love myself.
• I am a creature unlike any other - truly unique and blessed.
• I am irresistibly attractive to any man!
• Life supports me in every possible way.
• I move through life knowing that I am Divinely protected and guided.
• I can do all things through Spirit who strengthens me.
• I am a woman of substance.
• Any man is lucky to have me.
• Any man is lucky to have me because ...
• I am a woman truly busy fulfilling my life purpose.
• I see myself achieving great heights of success. 
• I see myself achieving ..., ..., ...
• I am a truly remarkable women who had achieved ...., ..., ... (List all your successes no matter what they are!)
• I love my life!
• Today is a wonderful day!
• It's a fabulous day for singing a song!
• I have abundance of self-assurance!
• I attract miracles into my life now!
• .... award winning scientist!
• .... the woman of power! 
• .... empowering author extraordinaire!

"Your perception of me does not make it reality" - Anonymous 

Forgiveness Affirmations

• I am forgiving, loving, gentle, and kind, and I know that life loves me.
• I forgive myself totally and unconditionally. 
• I forgive myself for not being perfect. I am living the very best way I know how.
• As I forgive myself, it becomes easier to forgive others.
• The door to my heart opens more as I forgive.
• I move through forgiveness to love.
• The past is the past. The thoughts of this moment create my future.
• I love and accept my husband exactly as he is right now.
• I move from forgiveness to understanding, and I have compassion for my husband
• I am ready to be healed. I am willing to forgive. All is well in my marriage.
• I cannot change other people, my husband included. I let him who he is and I simply love who I am.
• It is now safe for me to release all past traumas and move into love.
• I forgive and forget easily. Nobody is perfect.

Love Affirmations: Chakra Affirmations

- Affirmations for the Heart

• I deeply and truly love and approve of myself.
• I am adequate at all times to do that which is required of me.
• I love who I am.
• I am willing to love everything about myself.
• I trust in love.
• I open my heart to love.
• I forgive myself.
• I forgive those who need forgiving for not being what I wanted them to be.
• I acknowledge my own loveliness.
• I am pure, good, and innocent.
• Love is the purpose of my life.
• Love is everywhere.
• I open myself to the healing powers of love.
• I follow the path of the heart.
• The healing power of God's love heals my mind, heart and body

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Credit:
- Louise Hay, “I can do it”
- The Woman of Power, James Lee Valentine